Friday, May 23, 2014

Buffetting : Panic?

T texted me in the social media out of the blues.

Should I be hostile, or just plain friendly?

Hmm, shouldn't be thinking too much.

That is why friendship after romantic relationships are complicated.

Yet, I'm a proud Leo. Roar.

PS: Should I just end this or let it progress?


  1. Just be yourself. Don't over think and complicate your mind. Hahaha...

    1. I guess I did! Hahaha. T made it clear, we are friends now

  2. Replies
    1. That's a good one! I did. And I will definitely learn to let go bit by bit!

    2. the thing i learned about letting go is - don't. keep him in a corner of your heart. accept that it is over and don't try to forget. the more you try, the more you cannot forget. so... just be happy. cry if you need, mourn if you need, but give yourself a chance and then, do what you need to do, give yourself a chance and live life again!

    3. That was a great one! What I'm doing right now is to tell myself, it was good; but terrible towards the end because T was obviously not interested in committing anymore. I don't feel like making anymore guesses now because its not going to help much? As for mourning and crying; desensitized lol. I do get flashbacks and memories around the places, and those strong feelings I had for T; but those are in the past and I should be looking forward to a new and better relationship, for people who would care more.

      I guess I moved on a little quickly, but I need to beware of my next relationship; if its me pondering for the next one or just trying to get T off my mind.