In the midst of cytokine studies Boey dropped in a message speaking on the particular person he have in mind.
With the lack of maturity and responsibility, I just don't see how he can handle a relationship, let alone the person he mentioned. He is way out of his league, even by the basics.
In the midst of me judging him and the person, we came into how we perceive relationships.
He says we get to know the person after we get involved.
I say we get to know the person well enough to convince both of us that we should get together before we get involved.
He says we should treat relationships to be experimental at all levels, and we should never assume them to be long lasting.
I say we should first acknowledge that the relationship will be long lasting so and so we actually will commit while not just letting the relationship goes into kaputt before any solutions proposed.
I don't know, I'm probably a safe person.
But I know one thing for sure. I look for long term.