Friday, May 18, 2012

Buffetting : Judging

We judge people. That's our nature.

Unless you have already achieved the highest state of mindfulness, and you see nothing but the reality, without judging.

We judge people by their looks, size, skin color, food taken,sexuality, jobs, courses, and so much more.

And today before Combat when I was getting the dog food, I accidentally spotted a familiar figure.

Ah the instructor.

Wait, there's something else which is not right.

Oh, smoker.

Bummer. It's like instantly my respect level for him just dropped for 9 to like, 3.

I kept on questioning why did he even choose to smoke?

There's so much other stuffs to go to when you are frustrated than SMOKE. Workout!

Sex!

Food!

Work!

Movies!

But smoke? You can do better than that.

It have been instilled in me that, smoking is not good. Definitely a no no for any  future mate of mine to seek refuge in smoking, drugs or alcohol. Alcohol are for fun times, not when you are down.

The least you could do is to stay sane when you are down without alcohol to cloud your head.

So back to the instructor. Well, I still enjoyed his class.

And later on after the class, I've decided to wipe it off my head. Smoker or not, its not like we are going to be close friends or something.

As long as he instructs well, its fine I guess.

The first step into adulthood, professionalism line drawing.



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    1. for your first step into adulthood. what else >_>

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    2. i hate you you old blondie

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    3. the feeling is mutual, darling.

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    4. oh you have to make it so public right?

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    5. told you, I won't be anyone's dirty little secret

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    6. oh please~ there's nothing dirty okay~ unless you think it is!

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    7. fine then. I won't be anyone's secret.

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  2. One of the way to deal with my judging nature last time is to find 2,3 good points for every bad thing I found out about someone XD

    yeah, i agree on that....it's time to separate our personal feeling from dealing with others, something lot of ppl forgot to do

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    1. seriously? hmm...maybe i should. but that's for people i've decided to stay close with. Other than that buh bye

      but its harder, i of all people take things personally very easily. Like instantly.

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    2. maybe that's another reason why u shouldnt pursue med =D

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    3. i personally think that one of the traits of a medical associates is to have the ability to relate and be more empathetic thought.

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    4. yes, but at the same time, the practitioner must not be overwhelm by the emotion as not to affect the work..so they must be able to draw the faint line between personal and professional =)

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    5. true enough, but I still believe more in doctors who are able to connect, so as how I see myself connecting with animals, which is much harder.

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  3. Yep, saw a cutie during lunch today... checking him out every now and then... then he start smoking... lost interest instantly... high five!!! lollllll

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    1. HIGH FIVE. Smoking straight away ban. Shisha ban. Drugs ban. Alcohol, other than wine BAN.

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    2. Too hairy ban, dont shower ban, snores when he sleeps ban, only lay down there and never wanna move ban, eh... alot lah... lollll

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    3. omg almost the same leh! hahaha but these can easily change la, the snoring part OMGEE better don't exist or I sure die. I need to sleep in peace man,

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  4. Hahahaha, it's undeniable that everyone judges :P. To care or not to care is another matter xD

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    1. i like the way you put it! At least its not that "self-centered"

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